"I aint one to gossip, but.."

Now i need you to listen closely and read intently to what i'm about to say here.

Everyone Gossips

Not one person in this world, does NOT gossip. Maybe what you gossip about is different. But it's still GOSSIP. Your mother gossips, your father gossips, your grandmother gossips,your church members DEFINITELY gossip, your preacher gossips, and so does his wife. Every single person you've ever met in your has something to say about someone else. EVERYONE.

I personally, don't think anything is wrong with Gossip. As long as its with the right person. And notice i said PERSON. The mistake most people make is gossiping with someone who's loyalty lies somewhere else. If you tell someone something about their best friend, they are GOING to tell them. Now weather or not they say your name is completely up to them. But you better believe that, that friend is going to beg and plead to know who released this information. And if their a good friend, THEY WILL TELL THEM. Because their loyalty lies with their best friend, not with their associate. It doesn't make them messy. It makes them loyal.

When i have something juicy to talk about, i tell one person. And one person only. And vice verse. We both know that whatever is said will stay strictly between me and them. And it works out well.

I'm also a fond believer that some things you just need to keep to yourself. I'm not a person who has to repeat everything. Sometimes you just have to take things and keep it to yourself. Everything isn't worth being repeated. And half of the time its not even necessary. Especially if you don't know the whole story.

In closing, i always live by this quote

"Your opinion about me, is none of my business"

So talk about me as you must. Just make sure you do it with someone you trust. If it gets back to me, i won't get mad. Everyone has an opinion. Who i date, and what i do, for some reason, is big talk a lot of the time. I don't really mind. But don't you think for one second i don't have an opinion about you. And that your dirt isn't out on the streets.

That is of course if i even know you, which normally...is never the case.